march to one's own drum

Ignore conventional expectations

To march to one's own drum is to act according to one's own beliefs or inclinations rather than following convention or conforming to others' expectations.

The phrase, sometimes expanded to march to the beat of a different drummer, suggests independence that may be admired or criticized depending on context: She's always marched to her own drum—never cared what anyone thought.

Related

think outside the box · color outside the lines · self-reliance · contrarianism · uniqueness · self-expression · individuality · pioneering · free spirit · wild card · maverick · authenticity · iconoclasm · self-determination · lone wolf · eccentric · visionary · renegade

Opposites
conformity vs. independence

march to one's own drumfollow the crowd

Adopt majority behavior

conform · toe the line · go with the flow · fall in line · run with the pack

originality vs. imitation

march to one's own drumimitate

Reproduce another's behavior

jump on the bandwagon · mimic · parrot · ape · follow in someone's footsteps

autonomy vs. submission

march to one's own drumfollow orders

kowtow · submit · defer · obey · capitulate

Family

march, marches, marched, marching, marcher, marchers, owners, drummed, drumming

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G