making oneself scarce

Quietly slipping away

Making oneself scarce is leaving or staying away, especially to avoid trouble, awkwardness, or unwanted attention.

The phrase suggests deliberate absence—removing yourself from a situation where your presence might cause problems or where you're simply not wanted: When Dad started yelling, I made myself scarce.

It can also mean becoming hard to find: After the scandal broke, the CEO made himself scarce.

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tiptoe · fade away · flee · beat a retreat · ghost · slip away · evade · slink · lie low · lay low · escape · vanish · drop off the radar · retreat · go underground · fly under the radar · conceal · bolt

Opposites
presence and visibility

making oneself scarcesticking around

Continuing to be present

showing up · lingering · making an appearance · hanging around · staying put

social engagement

making oneself scarcehovering

Suspended without support

sticking around · hanging around · lingering · intruding · staying put

Family

makes, maker, makers, making, remake, remaking, scare, scares, scared

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