loosen the apron strings

Release parental control

To loosen the apron strings is to give someone—usually a child or young adult—more independence and freedom.

The apron strings are a mother's, and loosening them means relaxing protective control: It's time to loosen the apron strings and let him make his own mistakes.

The opposite, being tied to someone's apron strings, describes excessive dependence on or control by a parent or partner.

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nurturing · emancipation · freedom · separation anxiety · boundaries · empty nest · flying the nest · leaving home · first apartment · self-sufficiency · individuality · growing pains · resilience · caregiving · parental control · maturity · trust-building · dependency

Opposites
parental control

loosen the apron stringssmother

Deprive of air

helicopter parent · overprotect · wrap in cotton wool · micromanage · coddle

emotional attachment

loosen the apron stringshold on tight

cling · enmesh · bind · never let go · hold back

relational boundary setting

loosen the apron stringsenmesh

Catch in interwoven strands

hold the reins · tie down · constrain · restrict · bind

Family

loosen, loosely, looseness, loosening, loosened, looser, loosest, aprons, string

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G