kvetches
Whines and moans
Kvetches is the third-person singular or plural of kvetch, a Yiddish-derived verb meaning to complain persistently or whine: She kvetches about everything.
As a noun, kvetches are habitual complainers or the complaints themselves: His constant kvetches wore everyone down.
The word carries affectionate exasperation—annoying but not malicious.
pesters
Annoys persistently
hassles · needles · harps · fusses · scolds · chides · berates · peeves · irks · grates
grumbles
Low, discontented muttering
groans · bellyaches · carps · grouses · laments · bemoans · frets · fumes · vents · stews
emotional stance
kvetchesaccepts
Consents to receive
embraces · acquiesces · tolerates · goes with the flow · lets go