keep one's counsel

Guard your thoughts

To keep one's counsel is to remain silent about one's thoughts, plans, or opinions—to withhold what you know rather than share it.

The phrase suggests deliberate discretion rather than mere quietness: She kept her counsel during the meeting, revealing nothing of her strategy.

Someone who keeps their own counsel is characteristically private or guarded about their intentions.

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bite one's lip · reticence · privacy · self-control · non-disclosure · circumspection · trustworthiness · whisper · say nothing · deliberation · prudence · need to know · tight-lipped · confidentiality · composure · discretion · lips · loose lips

Opposites
verbal disclosure

keep one's counselspeak one's mind

State opinions openly

blurt out · spill the beans · let the cat out of the bag · open up · blab

emotional restraint

keep one's counselfly off the handle

Lose temper suddenly

blow up · explode · let it all hang out · lose one's temper · lash out

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G