it takes two to tango

Both parties involved

A saying meaning that certain situations require participation from both parties—often invoked when assigning blame for conflicts, failed relationships, or negotiations gone wrong.

The phrase suggests shared responsibility: if things went badly, neither side is entirely innocent.

Sure, he started the argument, but it takes two to tango.

Related

equal partners · working together · reciprocity · mutual support · mutuality · synergy · on the same page · collaboration · interdependence · accountability · harmony · relationship · negotiation · meeting of minds · common ground · blame · both sides · reconciliation

Opposites
mutual vs. individual responsibility

it takes two to tangothe buck stops here

Accepting final responsibility here

one-sided · unilateral · single-handedly · lone wolf · one bad apple

collaborative vs. solo endeavor

it takes two to tangosolo

Performance by one

going it alone · one-man show · go it alone · single-handed · flying solo

complicity vs. innocence

it takes two to tangoinnocence

Freedom from wrongdoing

blameless · not my fault · clean hands · guiltless · unprovoked

Family

takes, taken, taking, retake, undertake, overtake, twofold, tango, tangos

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G