hot messes

Utterly disorganized situations

A hot mess is a person or situation in spectacular disarray—chaotic, disorganized, and often entertainingly so.

The phrase suggests something gone thoroughly wrong but with a certain compelling quality: She showed up two hours late, mascara running, coffee-stained—a complete hot mess.

It can be affectionate or cutting depending on context.

The plural hot messes describes multiple such people or situations, or repeated instances of one person's chaos: My twenties were a series of hot messes.

Related

tangle · shambles · disorder · frazzled · clutter · all over the place · debacle · erratic · muddle · iconic · lovable · viral · candid · vulnerable · unkempt · reality TV · disorganized · imperfect

Opposites
order and composure

hot messeswell-oiled machines

Systems functioning without friction

put-together · organized · tidy · orderly · neat

personal presentation and self-management

hot messesput-together

Appearing organized and competent

polished · composed · poised · immaculate · buttoned-up

emotional regulation

hot messesunflappable

Impossible to disturb

serene · calm · collected · level-headed · even-keeled

Family

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Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG