held it together

Maintained emotional control

Held it together means maintained composure or functionality under pressure.

Someone who held it together during a crisis managed not to break down, panic, or fall apart emotionally: She held it together through the funeral, then cried for hours afterward.

The phrase can also describe keeping a situation or group from collapsing: The manager held it together while half the staff was out sick.

Related

fortitude · nerves of steel · teamwork · self-control · encouragement · resourcefulness · breath · deep breaths · brace · patience · clutch · resolve · squeeze · inner strength · calm · adaptability · steel · empathy

Opposites
emotional composure

held it togetherlost it

Suddenly gave way emotionally

fell apart · broke down · cracked · snapped · went to pieces

functional stability

held it togetherfell apart

Broke into components

collapsed · crumbled · broke down · disintegrated · imploded

structural/physical integrity

held it togetherfell apart

Broke into components

disintegrated · came apart · scattered · fragmented · collapsed

Family

held, together, holding, holder, holders, holdout, holdover, behold, beholden

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G