having words

Engaged in quarrel

Having words means arguing or quarreling, typically in a brief but heated exchange: I could hear them having words in the next room.

The phrase suggests a verbal confrontation more serious than disagreement but less severe than a full blowup.

Often used with "with": She's having words with the manager about the refund.

Related

quarrel · conversation · debate · confrontation · discussion · talking it out · dispute · syntax · rebuttal · verbal sparring · lexicon · dissent · prose · persuasion · altercation · speech · semantics · metaphor

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal conflict

having wordsgetting along

Relating well with others

harmony · making peace · reconciling · seeing eye to eye · making up

Family

have, having, haves, word, words, worded, wording, wordy, wordless

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G