grew a pair

Developed some backbone

Grew a pair means summoned courage or assertiveness, from the image of developing testicles (balls being slang for boldness).

The phrase typically describes someone who was previously timid or indecisive: He finally grew a pair and asked for a raise.

Often used as an imperative: Grow a pair and tell her how you feel.

Crude but common.

Related

confidence · assertiveness · steel oneself · boldness · grit · balls · brass balls · big boy pants · overcoming adversity · tenacity · rise to the occasion · step up to the plate · take the bull by the horns · face the music · resilience · determination · self-assurance · take heart

Opposites
courage and assertiveness

grew a pairchickened out

Retreated from fear

backed down · wimped out · caved · folded · ran away

masculine-coded toughness

grew a pairsoftened up

Made less resistant

assertiveness and confrontation

grew a pairrolled over

Rotated to another side

caved in · gave in · knuckled under · submitted · capitulated

Family

grow, grew, grown, growing, grows, grower, growth, outgrow, overgrow

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG-13