got one's wires crossed

Had a miscommunication

To get one's wires crossed is to have a miscommunication or misunderstanding, especially when two people have different information about the same arrangement: We got our wires crossed—I thought we were meeting at noon, but she expected me at two.

The image comes from telephone lines accidentally connected to the wrong circuit.

Also *get one's signals crossed*.

Related

misreading · wrong end of the stick · misinformation · signal interference · disagreement · brain fog · ambiguity · tangled up · confusion · error · absent-mindedness · glitch · mixed signals · discord · forgetfulness · inattentiveness · distraction · overthinking

Opposites
clarity of communication

got one's wires crossedcrystal clear

Entirely unambiguous, perfectly understood

spelled it out · on the same page · got the message · connected · got through to

alignment of understanding

got one's wires crossedon the same page

Sharing a common understanding

on the same wavelength · in sync · of one mind · in agreement · saw eye to eye

intentionality of confusion

got one's wires crossedlied

Told a falsehood

pulled the wool over someone's eyes · led astray · duped · hoodwinked

Family

getter, wires, wired, wireless, rewire, rewired, cross, crossed, crosses

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G