getting under skin

Provoking slow aggravation

Getting under someone's skin means irritating or bothering them persistently, often in a way that's hard to shake off: Her constant criticisms really got under my skin.

The image suggests something that has penetrated beneath the surface and become an ongoing irritation.

Less commonly, it can mean affecting someone deeply in a positive way—becoming fascinating or emotionally compelling: That song got under my skin and I can't stop thinking about it.

Related

driving me crazy · pet peeve · festering · gnawing · crawling · itching · splinter · thorn · rash · parasite · tick · maddening · grating · pestering · nagging · digging · worming · infuriating

Opposites
emotional effect

getting under skinsoothing

Reducing distress or discomfort

calming · comforting · reassuring · relaxing · pacifying

interaction style

getting under skinopen communication

Unrestricted exchange of information

social harmony

getting under skinkeeping the peace

Maintaining order and calm

ingratiating · winning over · breaking the ice

Family

gets, gotten, under, skin, skinned, skinning, skinny, skinner

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G