getting a grip

Regaining your composure

Getting a grip means gaining control over one's emotions or composure, especially when upset or overwhelmed: I need to get a grip before the interview.

The phrase often appears as an imperative telling someone to calm down or act more rationally: Get a grip—it's not the end of the world.

The underlying image is of grasping something firmly to steady oneself.

Related

composure · keeping cool · equanimity · control · clarity · take control · calmness · understanding · dexterity · tactile feedback · steadiness · mental toughness · hold · holding on · strategy · fortitude · resolution · pulling together

Opposites
emotional control

getting a griplosing it

Mental composure collapsing

falling apart · breaking down · coming unglued · freaking out · losing control

mental clarity/focus

getting a griplosing the plot

Becoming confused or irrational

spacing out · losing focus · losing one's mind · zoning out · drifting

physical hold

getting a gripletting go

Releasing one's grasp

releasing · dropping · slipping · fumbling

Family

gotten, grip, grips, gripped, gripping, gripper, grippy

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G