gets a grip

Regains emotional control

Gets a grip means regains composure or self-control, usually after becoming upset or irrational.

The phrase often appears as a command: Get a grip! suggests someone is overreacting and needs to calm down.

It can also mean finally understanding or taking control of a situation: She got a grip on the project's scope.

The underlying image is of grasping something firmly—your emotions, your circumstances, yourself.

Related

self-control · cool head · clutch · stabilize · hold steady · realize · comprehend · determination · patience · seize · take hold · discern · focus · hold · concentrate · clasp · fasten · secure

Opposites
emotional control

gets a griploses it

Suddenly becomes enraged

falls apart · breaks down · loses control · freaks out · goes to pieces

mental focus

gets a gripspaces out

Becomes temporarily inattentive

zones out · loses the plot · checks out · dissociates

behavioral trajectory

gets a gripspirals

Curves circling a center

goes downhill · deteriorates · self-destructs · implodes · unravels

Family

get, gets, getting, grip, grips, gripped, gripping, gripper, grippers

Familiarity
Top 50,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G