get one's own back

Settle the score

To get one's own back is to take revenge or retaliate against someone who has wronged you: She was determined to get her own back after being passed over for promotion.

The phrase is more common in British than American English, where get back at serves the same purpose.

Related

feud · hold a grudge · an axe to grind · satisfaction · retribution · counterattack · vindication · settling scores · settle the score · even the score · redress · tit for tat · taste of their own medicine · avenging · vendetta · have the last laugh · resentment · bitterness

Opposites
response to being wronged

get one's own backforgive

Cease to blame

let it go · turn the other cheek · forgive and forget · pardon · let bygones be bygones

interpersonal dynamic

get one's own backreconcile

Resolve a disagreement

make amends · embrace · welcome back · mend fences

interpersonal power dynamic

get one's own backsubmit

Present for consideration

turn the other cheek · accept defeat · back down · yield · capitulate

Family

gets, getting, gotten, ones, owning, owners, back, backs, backed

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Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G