fended for oneself

Survived without help

Fended for oneself means managed without help from others, took care of one's own needs independently.

The phrase implies self-reliance, often in circumstances where support might normally be expected: With both parents working, the kids fended for themselves after school.

It can suggest resourcefulness or, sometimes, neglect.

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endurance · quick-thinking · street smarts · foraging · scavenging · bare bones · creativity · coping skills · perseverance · trial by fire · craftiness · scrappiness · improvisation · rationing · making do · flexibility · bootstrapping · grit

Opposites
self-reliance vs. dependence

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Took advantage of hospitality

mooched

Family

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