don't go there

Change the subject

Don't go there is a warning to avoid a topic—usually because it's painful, controversial, or likely to start an argument: I know you want to ask about her ex, but don't go there.

The phrase treats conversation as territory, some of it best left unexplored.

It can also warn against a course of action: You're thinking of quitting? Don't go there.

Related

change the subject · taboo · avoidance · drop it · let it go · tact · discretion · social cues · walk on eggshells · danger zone · no man's land · awkwardness · can of worms · minefield · diplomacy · euphemism · diversion · de-escalation

Opposites
conversational openness

don't go theretell me more

Prompt for details

go there · go ahead · by all means · open up · spill

emotional invitation

don't go thereopen invitation

let it out

Family

there, does, done, doing, doer, goes, gone, goer

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Known to kids · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G