disoblige

Decline to help

Disoblige means to offend or inconvenience someone, typically by refusing a request or failing to act helpfully.

It carries a formal, somewhat old-fashioned tone and implies a breach of social courtesy rather than serious harm.

I hope my early departure won't disoblige you.

The word suggests that accommodation was expected but not provided, leaving the other party in an awkward or disadvantaged position.

offense

affront

Deliberate public insult

hurt · upset · displease · antagonize · alienate · aggrieve · mortify · humiliate · embarrass · slight

inconvenience

bother

To annoy or disturb

burden · hassle · disturb · discommode · incommode · annoy · irk · vex · aggravate · disrupt

discourtesy

snub

Deliberate dismissive rejection

brush-off · rudeness · impoliteness · incivility · disrespect · brusqueness · curtness · dismissiveness · tactlessness · indelicacy

refusal

decline

Decrease or refuse

withhold · turn down · say no · unaccommodating · unhelpful · uncooperative · obstruct · thwart · unwilling · reluctant

Opposites
helpfulness and accommodation

disobligeoblige

Require or assist

accommodate · help · assist · aid · favor

emotional effect on others

disobligeplease

Polite appeal word

gratify · delight · satisfy · gladden · content

Family

disobliging, disobligingly, disobliged

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G