dance to someone's tune

Do their bidding

To dance to someone's tune is to do what they want, following their lead or obeying their wishes.

The image is of a puppet or performer controlled by whoever plays the music: After the merger, the whole department danced to the new CEO's tune.

Often implies reluctant compliance or subservience.

Related

follow orders · servility · relationships · dominance · coercion · do as told · expectations · deference · conformity · yielding · dependency · puppet · exploitation · sway · peer influence · jump through hoops · hierarchy · control

Opposites
autonomy and control

dance to someone's tunemarch to one's own drum

Act independently of others

go one's own way · think for oneself · do one's own thing · stand on one's own two feet · rebel

power position

dance to someone's tunecall the shots

Exercise ultimate authority

call the tune · pull the strings · run the show · hold the reins · wear the trousers

Family

dance, dances, danced, dancing, dancer, dancers, someone, tuners, tuneful

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G