cold shouldered

Given icy treatment

Cold shouldered means deliberately ignored or treated with aloofness.

To give someone the cold shoulder is to snub them—refusing warmth or friendliness: She cold shouldered him at the party after their argument.

The phrase suggests turning away, offering only a chilly, dismissive back rather than welcoming attention.

rejection

spurned

Rejected with contempt

jilted · brushed off · turned away · cast aside · dismissed · refused · declined · repudiated · disowned · abandoned

indifference

ignored

Purposely not noticed

disregarded · unnoticed · sidelined · invisible · bypassed · tuned out · blanked · stonewalled · frozen out · iced out

alienation

estranged

Separated by emotional distance

outcast · disconnected · shut out · pushed away · distanced

contempt

scorned

Regarded with contempt

derided · looked down on · disrespected · mocked · ridiculed · humiliated · degraded · slighted · insulted

Opposites
social reception/treatment

cold shoulderedembraced

Held someone warmly

welcomed · accepted · included · taken in · befriended

emotional warmth in greeting

cold shoulderedacknowledged

Accepted as true

hugged · kissed · hailed · engaged · fussed over

attention and engagement

cold shoulderedpursued

Went after persistently

courted · acknowledged · engaged · noticed · attended to

Family

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