butter someone up

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praise · cajole · coax · suck up · brown-nose · fawn · grovel · smooth-talk · ingratiate · apple-polish · soft-soap · honey · sugar · slick · oily · sycophant · bootlick · kiss up

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interpersonal intent

butter someone upput someone down

insult · criticize · disparage · berate · belittle

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