breaks the ice

Eases initial awkwardness

Breaks the ice means to initiate conversation or interaction in a situation where people feel awkward or unfamiliar with one another.

The expression evokes the image of clearing a frozen waterway to allow passage.

Someone who breaks the ice at a party might tell a joke or ask an easy question to get people talking.

After an uncomfortable silence, she broke the ice by complimenting his tie.

An icebreaker is an activity or remark designed to serve this purpose.

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common ground · hesitation · games · storytelling · openness · social cues · relief · confidence · social butterfly · shyness · anecdotes · mingling · discomfort · humor · rapport building · networking · activities · warming up

Opposites
social initiation

breaks the iceclams up

Stops talking abruptly

freezes out · keeps to oneself · holds back · shuts down · stonewalls

atmosphere creation

breaks the icethrows cold water on

Expresses doubt or disapproval

puts a damper on

Family

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Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G