bows and scrapes

Shows excessive deference

Bows and scrapes describes exaggerated gestures of deference or respect—the bow being a forward bend, the scrape a backward slide of one foot while bowing.

The phrase usually appears with a verb: He made his bows and scrapes to the visiting dignitaries.

It often carries a note of mockery, suggesting the deference is excessive or insincere.

Related

bow · kowtowing · greeting · obsequiousness · bootlicking · brown-nosing · kiss the ring · yes man · kneel · prostrate · groveling · ingratiation · salute · obeisance · nod · pandering · humble servant · decorum

Opposites
deference vs. defiance

bows and scrapesdefies

Openly resists or challenges

rebels · talks back · stands up to · insubordination · disobeys

servility vs. dignity

bows and scrapesstands tall

Exhibits upright pride

unbowed · self-possessed · self-respect · stands one's ground · poised

flattery vs. authenticity

bows and scrapestells it like it is

Speaks with brutal candor

calls a spade a spade · straight talk · candor

Family

bows, bowed, bowing, scrape, scrapes, scraped, scraping, scraper, scrapers

Familiarity
Top 1,000,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Concrete · Everyday, not technical · Rated G