bitching out

Giving someone hell

Bitching out means harshly criticizing or berating someone, often publicly or aggressively: The coach bitched us out after we lost.

It can also mean backing down from a challenge or losing nerve—a variant of chickening out: He was going to ask her out but bitched out at the last second.

The two senses are distinct: one is about attacking, the other about retreating.

Related

chastising · lambasting · laying into · reading the riot act · reneging · chickening out · wimping out · getting cold feet · losing nerve · backing out · copping out · flaking · admonishing · scolding · choke · complaining · retreating · abandoning

Opposites
communication tone and intensity

bitching outsoft-pedaling

Understating something deliberately

sugarcoating · biting one's tongue · measured response · holding one's peace · saying nothing

interpersonal treatment

bitching outpraising

Voicing admiration

commending · complimenting · building up · encouraging · affirming

emotional regulation

bitching outkeeping one's cool

Staying composed when provoked

taking it in stride · letting it go · counting to ten

Family

bitch, bitches, bitched, bitching, bitchy, bitchier, bitchiest, bitchiness, outing

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