bailing out on

Leaving in lurch

Bailing out on means abandoning or backing out of a commitment to someone or something.

The phrase combines the escape sense of bail out with the target of that abandonment: She bailed out on us at the last minute, He's always bailing out on plans.

It carries a note of disappointment or betrayal—the person left behind expected better.

Related

retreat · fleeing · cutting and running · jumping ship · absconding · running out on · betrayal · unreliability · neglect · no-show · dereliction · pulling out · ditching · defaulting · disappointment · flaking · left in the lurch · dishonesty

Opposites
commitment and follow-through

bailing out onhonoring

Recognizing with respect

fulfilling · sticking to · making good on · seeing through · carrying out

persistence and endurance

bailing out onseeing through

Perceiving hidden truth

toughing out · riding out · weathering · enduring

loyalty and support

bailing out onstanding by

Ready to act

backing · supporting · having someone's back · championing

Family

bail, bailing, bailed, bails, bailout, outing

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G