umming

Filling awkward silence

Umming is the act of making "um" sounds while speaking, typically as a verbal filler while thinking or hesitating.

It often signals uncertainty or buying time: She stood there umming and ahhing before finally making a decision.

The related *erring* serves the same function with "er" instead.

filler

er

Spoken filler noise

  • uhVocalized hesitation marker
  • ahExclamation of realization
  • likeComparable to, or enjoy

well · so · you know · I mean · basically · actually · sort of · kind of · right · okay

hesitation

pausing

Stopping briefly mid-action

stalling · stammering · stuttering · hemming · hawing · dithering · vacillating · fumbling · floundering · sputtering

thinking

pondering

Thinking deeply about something

weighing · reflecting · musing · contemplating · processing · formulating · gathering thoughts · working out · concentration · recollecting

uncertainty

doubtful

Uncertain of truth

ambivalent · noncommittal · undecided · irresolute · second-guessing · questioning · unconvinced · skeptical · waffling · wishy-washy

Opposites
verbal fluency

ummingeloquence

Persuasive verbal grace

silver-tongued · well-spoken · glib · oratory · declaiming

communicative state

ummingpregnant pause

Significant silence conveying unspoken meaning

strategic pause · saying nothing · composure · silence

verbal decisiveness

ummingasserting

Stating something confidently

pronouncing · unhesitating · blurting

Family

um, hmmm, hmming, ummed

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G