toyer

One who fiddles

A toyer is someone who toys with something or someone—playing idly, experimenting without commitment, or treating lightly what deserves seriousness.

The word often carries a hint of disapproval: He was just a toyer, never serious about any of the women he dated.

A toyer dabbles rather than commits.

flirt

tease

Mock playfully

heartbreaker · player · seducer · lothario · womanizer · charmer · trifler · fickle · noncommittal · insincere

manipulator

schemer

Crafty, deceitful planner

gamesman · user · controller · string-puller · conniver · trifler · insincere · calculating · cunning · crafty

dabbler

hobbyist

Recreational pursuer of interests

putterer · fiddler · experimenter · novice · casual · uncommitted · superficial · half-hearted · nonserious · idle

fidgeter

fiddler

One who bows strings

fingerer · plucker · picker · noodler · absent-minded · restless · doodler

Opposites
seriousness of engagement

toyerdevotee

Zealous admirer or follower

enthusiast · zealot · true believer · professional · dedicator

emotional sincerity

toyertrue love

Authentic romantic connection

honest broker · straight shooter · loyalist · true friend

emotional commitment in relationships

toyertrue love

Authentic romantic connection

loyal companion · monogamist · romantic

Phrases
Family

toy, toys, toying, toyed, toyshop, toylike, toyish, toyshops

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G