spoiling somebody rotten

Overindulging with gifts

To spoil somebody rotten is to indulge them excessively, showering them with gifts, attention, or leniency beyond what's reasonable.

Usually said of children or grandchildren: Her grandparents spoil her rotten.

The phrase can also describe pampering a romantic partner or pet.

Rotten intensifies the excess—spoiled to the point of decay.

Related

unconditional love · ungratefulness · affection · entitlement · pampering · dependency · enabling · abundance · treats · grandparents · indulgence · rewards · extravagance · spare no expense · favoritism · overprotectiveness · only child · splurging

Opposites
indulgence vs. discipline

spoiling somebody rottentough love

Beneficial strictness from affection

strict parenting · laying down the law · holding to account

excessive giving vs. deprivation

spoiling somebody rottenneglecting

Failing to attend to

depriving · denying · mistreating · abusing · abandoning

softness vs. harshness in treatment

spoiling somebody rottentoughening up

Becoming less sensitive

school of hard knocks

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Positive · Everyday, not technical · Rated G