soft-soaped

Used smooth talk

Soft-soaped means flattered or persuaded with excessive praise and smooth talk.

Someone who has been soft-soaped was won over through charm rather than honest argument: He soft-soaped her into lending him the car.

The term comes from soft soap—a liquid or semi-liquid soap—which became slang for flattery, something slippery applied to smooth things over.

flattery

flattered

Pleased by compliments

adulated · lauded · stroked · honeyed · sugared · smooth-talked · schmoozed · charmed · cajoled · wheedled

manipulation

persuaded

Led to believe

wheedled · coaxed · maneuvered · handled · played · finessed · massaged · nudged

ingratiating

fawning

Excessive insincere flattery

smarmy · oleaginous · servile · toadying · bootlicking · groveling · cloying · oily · slick · greasy

deception

misled

Caused to believe falsely

hoodwinked · bamboozled · beguiled · tricked · fooled · snowed · gulled · suckered · played · had

Categories
Opposites
communication honesty

soft-soapedtold it like it is

Communicated harsh reality directly

set straight · disabused · called out · confronted · called a spade a spade

treatment of recipient

soft-soapedexcoriated

Harshly condemned or criticized

berated · lambasted · chewed out · ripped into · dressed down

Family

soft, soap, soft-soap, softer, softest, softly, softness, soften, softens

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G