putting one's foot in one's mouth

Saying something regrettable

Putting one's foot in one's mouth is saying something embarrassing, tactless, or inappropriate—usually by accident.

The image suggests clumsily stuffing your own foot where words should come out: I really put my foot in my mouth when I asked about her husband—I forgot they'd divorced.

The phrase implies immediate regret upon realizing the blunder.

Related

awkwardness · faux pas · tactlessness · verbal diarrhea · speaking out of turn · regret · nervousness · gaffe · indiscretion · slip of the tongue · clarification · misjudgment · miscommunication · misunderstanding · shame · blurting out · foot in mouth · overconfidence

Opposites
verbal tact and appropriateness

putting one's foot in one's mouthtact

Sensitivity in speech

diplomacy · eloquence · discretion · savoir-faire · silver tongue

social awareness and timing

putting one's foot in one's mouthreading the room

Perceiving social cues accurately

social grace · perfect timing · perceptiveness · situational awareness · emotional intelligence

intentionality of offense

putting one's foot in one's mouthpointed remark

Cutting comment aimed deliberately

barb · verbal attack · cutting remark · tongue-lashing · trash talk

Family

footed, footing, footage, mouths, mouthed

Familiarity
Top 200,000
Profile
Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G