played with fire

Tempted fate recklessly

To play with fire is to take dangerous risks, to court disaster through reckless behavior.

The metaphor is transparent: fire can warm or destroy, and those who handle it carelessly get burned.

She knew she was playing with fire when she started dating her boss.

The phrase almost always carries a warning or judgment—someone is being foolish with something that could hurt them.

Related

living dangerously · temptation · gambling · high stakes · hazardous · provocation · thin ice · fallout · burned · defiance · thrill-seeking · courting disaster · regret · foolhardiness · impulsivity · punishment · brinkmanship · close call

Opposites
judgment and wisdom

played with fireknew better

Had superior judgment

kept a cool head

caution and prudence

played with firethought twice

Family

play, played, playing, plays, player, players, playful, playfully, playfulness

Familiarity
Top 50,000
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G