off-and-on

Not constantly happening

Off-and-on describes something that happens intermittently—starting and stopping, present and then absent: They had an off-and-on relationship for years, off-and-on rain throughout the afternoon.

The phrase can also be an adverb: We dated off and on through college.

Often written without hyphens when used adverbially.

intermittent

sporadic

Occurring irregularly, infrequently

fluctuating · erratic · unpredictable · inconsistent · fitful · spasmodic · patchy · discontinuous · interrupted · stop-and-go

relationships

casual

Relaxed and informal

complicated · unstable · ambiguous · wavering · nonexclusive · rekindled · break-up · reconciliation · situationship · fling

duration

years

Twelve-month spans

stretches · spells · phases · intervals · stints · bouts · while · time · throughout · spanning

Opposites
continuity/consistency

off-and-oncontinuous

Without pause or gap

constant · uninterrupted · steady · perpetual · nonstop

reliability/predictability

off-and-onconsistent

Not varying or contradicting

regular · reliable · dependable · steady · stable

Family

off, offs

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G