negative Nelly

Always expects worse

A negative Nelly is someone who habitually focuses on the worst aspects of situations, always finding reasons why something won't work or dwelling on problems rather than solutions.

The rhyming name gives the term a slightly playful, teasing quality: Don't be such a negative Nelly—give it a chance.

Also negative Nancy.

Related

killjoy · miserable · downer · gloomy · naysayer · defeatist · grumbler · skeptic · faultfinder · mope · sad · wet blanket · Debbie Downer · Gloomy Gus · worrier · unhappy · woe is me · discouragement

Opposites
optimism and outlook

negative Nellyoptimist

Habitually hopeful person

Pollyanna · eternal optimist · Little Miss Sunshine · hopeful · sunny disposition

social energy and mood

negative Nellyray of sunshine

Incurably upbeat person

cheerleader · happy camper · encourager · good-time Charlie · life of the party

Family

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Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G