kissed up

Played the sycophant

Kissed up is the past tense of kiss up, meaning to have flattered or fawned over someone in authority to gain favor.

The phrase suggests insincere or excessive deference aimed at personal benefit rather than genuine respect.

He kissed up to the boss all year hoping for a promotion.

Someone who habitually engages in this behavior may be called a kiss-up.

Related

currying favor · pandering · servility · brown-nosing · brown nosing · sucking up · kowtowing · bending the knee · apple-polishing · ambition · favoritism · opportunism · obsequiousness · placating · good graces · self-preservation · manipulation · submission

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Opposites
social deference and flattery

kissed uptalked back

Replied disrespectfully to authority

stood up to · defied · disrespected · snubbed · dismissed

treatment of authority figures

kissed uprebelled

Resisted those in charge

defied · stood up to · challenged · talked back · pushed back

authenticity of deference

kissed uptold it like it is

Communicated harsh reality directly

called out

Family

kiss, kissed, kisses, kissing, kisser, kissers

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated PG