kept one's counsel

Held one's tongue

To keep one's counsel is to remain silent about one's thoughts, plans, or opinions—to hold back rather than share what you know or believe.

The phrase suggests deliberate discretion: She kept her counsel during the meeting, waiting to see how others would vote.

Someone who keeps their own counsel is private and self-contained, not given to sharing confidences or seeking advice.

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said nothing · secrecy · deliberation · circumspection · tight-lipped · confidentiality · need to know · concealment · close to the vest · taciturnity · diplomacy · guardedness · prudence · reserve · caution · muteness · subtlety · stoicism

Opposites
verbal disclosure

kept one's counselblurted out

Uttered impulsively

spoke one's mind · spoke up · spilled the beans · let the cat out of the bag · opened up

emotional restraint

kept one's counsellost one's temper

Became suddenly enraged

flew off the handle · let it all out · vented · exploded · lashed out

strategic communication

kept one's counselblurted out

Uttered impulsively

shot one's mouth off · let slip · overshared · talked out of turn · kissed and told

Family

keeps, keeping, keeper, keepers, kept, ones, counsel, counsels, counseled

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G