hard done by

Got the shaft

Hard done by means treated unfairly or harshly by circumstances or other people.

Someone who feels hard done by believes they've received less than they deserve or been dealt a bad hand: He's always acting hard done by, but he's had more advantages than most.

The phrase often carries a hint of self-pity or complaint.

Related

got the shaft · wronged · victimised · shafted · short end of the stick · put-upon · bitter · maltreated · underdog · indignant · crying foul · disgruntled · marginalization · exploitation · discontented · hardship · disappointment · helplessness

Opposites
fairness of treatment

hard done byfavored

Shown special preference

privileged · blessed · fortunate · lucky · pampered

fortune and luck

hard done bylucky

Favored by chance

fortunate · blessed · favored · charmed · landed on one's feet

Family

hard, done, harder, hardest, harden, hardened, hardening, hardness, hardy

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