flies off the handle

Loses one's temper

To fly off the handle is to lose one's temper suddenly and explosively, often over something minor: He flew off the handle when I mentioned the parking ticket.

The image is of an axe head coming loose and flying dangerously free.

Someone who flies off the handle reacts with disproportionate anger before calming down.

Related

goes crazy · go ballistic · blow a fuse · outburst · rage · snapping · snap at · blow-up · fury · exasperation · lashing out · wrath · tantrum · eruption · hit the roof · short fuse · meltdown · blow a gasket

Categories
Opposites
emotional control

flies off the handlekeeps one's cool

Remains calm despite provocation

bites one's tongue · rolls with the punches · holds it together · keeps it together

temperament/reactivity

flies off the handleeven-tempered

Reliably calm disposition

cool-headed · level-headed · unflappable · calm · imperturbable

Family

flies, flying, handle, handles, handled, handling, handler

Familiarity
Top 100,000
Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G