flew the nest

Left the household

Flew the nest describes young people who have left their parents' home to live independently.

The image is of fledgling birds departing once they can fly: Both kids have flown the nest, so we're downsizing.

Sometimes used of anyone leaving a familiar place or situation: Our best engineer flew the nest for a competitor.

Related

bittersweetness · leaving home · autonomy · nostalgia · adulthood · household · self-sufficiency · first apartment · financial independence · homesickness · self-discovery · rites of passage · upbringing · new beginnings · milestone · domestic life · maturity · family unit

Opposites
residential independence

flew the nestfailure to launch

Inability to begin independently

boomerang kid · mama's boy · daddy's girl · stayed put · nested

developmental trajectory

flew the nestboomerang kid

Adult child living with parents

failure to launch · stuck at home · Peter Pan syndrome · arrested development

life autonomy and self-sufficiency

flew the nestdependent

Requiring outside support

coddled · sheltered · Peter Pan syndrome · infantilized

Family

flew, nest, flies, flying, flown, flight, flights, nests, nested

Familiarity
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Profile
Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G