fends for oneself

Manages without help

To fend for oneself is to manage without help from others, taking care of one's own needs: After his parents died, he had to fend for himself at sixteen.

The phrase often implies resourcefulness in difficult circumstances, though it can simply mean being independent: The kids are old enough to fend for themselves at lunchtime.

Related

making ends meet · entrepreneurship · grit · making do · rough it · adaptability · coping skills · improvisation · perseverance · individualism · do it yourself · fortitude · freedom · on your own · resilience · inner strength · emotional stability · hustling

Opposites
self-reliance vs. dependence

fends for oneselfmooches

Habitually seeks handouts

freeloads

Family

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G