curried favour

Played the sycophant

Curried favour means sought approval through flattery or ingratiation.

The phrase comes from a medieval French satire about grooming a horse named Fauvel, symbol of cunning and duplicity—to curry (groom) Fauvel was to flatter deceit itself.

The spelling shifted to favour, which made more intuitive sense.

He curried favour with the boss by laughing at every joke.

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sycophancy · kowtow · yes man · opportunism · pander · wheedle · suck up · favoritism · grovel · nepotism · schmooze · self-interest · brown-nose · brown nosing · apple-polish · social climbing · play the game · political maneuvering

Opposites
social approach

curried favourtold it like it is

Communicated harsh reality directly

relational stance toward authority

curried favourburned bridges

Destroyed relationships permanently

rebelled · dissented · stood one's ground · pushed back · resisted

interpersonal authenticity

curried favourstraightforwardness

Quality of being direct

candour · frankness

Family

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