come to grips with

Tackle a problem

Come to grips with means to confront and deal with something difficult or challenging.

The phrase suggests engaging directly rather than avoiding: She finally came to grips with her father's death.

It can also mean to understand something complex: I'm still coming to grips with the new software.

The image is of grasping something firmly, as wrestlers grip each other.

Related

square up to · face the music · deal with · get a handle on · acknowledge · reckon with · own up · own up to · bite the bullet · tackle · undertake · grapple · grasp · comprehend · manage · handle · analyze · address

Opposites
engagement vs. avoidance

come to grips withavoid

Stay away from

evade · ignore · shy away from · sidestep · bury one's head in the sand

acceptance vs. denial

come to grips withdeny

Refuse to admit

reject · disavow · repudiate · dismiss · disbelieve

understanding vs. confusion

come to grips withmisunderstand

Grasp incorrectly

Family

come, grip, become, coming, overcome, becoming, gripping, comeback, comes

Familiarity
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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G