choose sides

Abandon neutral ground

To choose sides is to align yourself with one of two or more opposing groups, factions, or positions in a conflict or competition.

The phrase often appears in contexts where neutrality becomes difficult or impossible: The civil war forced everyone to choose sides.

In childhood games, choosing sides refers to the process of selecting team members, typically with captains alternating picks.

The expression carries connotations of commitment and potential consequences, since choosing sides usually means accepting the risks that come with that allegiance.

Related

join forces · preference · tribalism · polarization · selection · draw a line · team captains · allegiance · rivalry · feud · pick · option · loyalty · loyalty test · team up · solidarity · us versus them · battle

Opposites
partisanship

choose sidessit on the fence

Avoid committing either way

hedge · equivocate · abstain · play devil's advocate

engagement

choose sideswalk away

Depart from something

abstain · disengage · opt out · bow out · stand aside

Family

choose, sides, chose, chosen, choosing, chooser, choosy, choice, side

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Everyday, not technical · Rated G