carried a torch for
Harbored romantic feelings
To carry a torch for someone is to harbor romantic feelings for them, typically unrequited or from a distance.
The expression suggests a flame that persists despite circumstances—perhaps the person is unavailable, unaware, or the relationship has ended.
She carried a torch for him long after they broke up.
The phrase often implies a wistful, somewhat melancholy devotion rather than active pursuit.
- unrequited loveRomantic feelings not returned
- hopeless romanticPerson seeking idealized love
- longingIntense, persistent desire
- burning desireIntense emotional craving
- flameBurning gas made visible
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