bided one's time

Held off acting

To bide one's time is to wait patiently for the right moment to act.

The phrase suggests deliberate restraint rather than passive waiting—you're holding back until circumstances favor you: She bided her time, knowing the opportunity would come.

The past tense bided appears almost exclusively in this expression; elsewhere bide has largely disappeared from modern English.

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occasion · restraint · waiting game · lying in wait · sitting tight · perseverance · slow burn · fortitude · steadiness · deliberation · composure · preparation · readiness · tolerance · prudence · scheming · plotting · anticipation

Opposites
patience and timing

bided one's timejumped the gun

Acted prematurely

flew off the handle · pounced

decisiveness and action

bided one's timetook the plunge

Made a bold decision

forged ahead

strategic approach

bided one's timeflew off the handle

Reacted with sudden rage

shot from the hip · winged it · panicked · overreacted

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G