begrudgery

Jealous ill will

Begrudgery is resentment toward others' success or good fortune, especially the impulse to diminish or criticize those who achieve something.

The term is particularly associated with Irish culture, where it names a familiar social phenomenon: There's a lot of begrudgery when someone from the village does well for themselves.

It suggests envy mixed with spite—not wanting others to rise above their station.

envy

covetousness

Excessive desire for possessions

  • jealousyResentful desire for another's advantages
  • spitePetty malicious intent
  • resentmentPersistent bitter displeasure

bitterness · ill-will · tall poppy syndrome · schadenfreude · malice · invidiousness · backbiting · belittlement · sour grapes · rivalry

resentment

bitterness

Sharp, unpleasant taste or feeling

hostility · indignation · umbrage · acrimony · vitriol · antipathy · displeasure · malevolence · vengefulness · scorn

reluctance

hesitation

Delay from uncertainty

withholding · stinginess · niggardliness · parsimony · meanness · ungraciousness · half-heartedness · foot-dragging · miserliness

discontent

dissatisfaction

State of being displeased

moaning · negativity · cynicism · carping · faultfinding · criticism · disparagement · nitpicking · whinging

Opposites
emotional response to others' success

begrudgeryadmiration

Deep respect felt

celebration · applause · appreciation · supportiveness · magnanimity

generosity of spirit

begrudgerymagnanimity

Generous, noble spirit

open-heartedness · big-heartedness · graciousness · liberality · warm-heartedness

Family

begrudge, begrudged, begrudger

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