backhanded remarks

Compliments that sting

Backhanded remarks are comments that seem complimentary on the surface but contain criticism or insult underneath: Nice presentation—I'm surprised you pulled it off.

The term comes from the backhand stroke in tennis, suggesting something delivered sideways rather than directly.

Also called backhanded compliments when the format mimics praise.

Related

compliment · sugar coated · kill with kindness · sting · subtle · dig · jab · veiled · underhanded · two-faced · barbed · snark · catty · dismissive · condescending · patronizing · slight · insinuation

Opposites
directness of criticism

backhanded remarksstraight talk

Honest, direct communication

constructive criticism · brutal honesty · telling it like it is

emotional impact on recipient

backhanded remarksmorale boosters

Things that lift spirits

kind words · affirmations · pep talks · positive reinforcement

Family

backed, backing, backs, backward, backwards, backhand, backhanded, backhandedly, handed

Familiarity
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G