airs and graces

Snobbish refined behavior

Airs and graces are pretentious or affected manners, an exaggerated display of refinement meant to impress others.

The phrase is usually disparaging, suggesting someone is putting on a show of superiority they haven't earned: She's all airs and graces since she married into money.

More common in British than American English.

Related

affectedness · looking down one's nose · swanning · hoity-toity · snobbery · stuck-up · too big for one's boots · putting on · mannerisms · uppishness · posturing · high horse · high and mighty · ostentation · posh · fancy pants · social climber · self-important

Opposites
authenticity and pretension

airs and gracesgenuineness

Quality of being real

authenticity · naturalness · modesty · humility · unpretentiousness

social manner and class signaling

airs and gracescommon touch

Rapport with ordinary people

folksiness · earthiness · plainness · simplicity · unpretentiousness

social elevation vs. humility

airs and graceshumility

Freedom from arrogance

modesty · humbleness · unpretentiousness · self-effacement · meekness

Family

grace, graceful, airs, disgrace, airing, disgraceful, airless, disgraced, graced

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Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G