adding fuel to fire

Escalating the situation

Adding fuel to fire means making a bad situation worse, typically by saying or doing something that intensifies conflict or anger.

The image is of feeding flames that are already burning: His sarcastic apology only added fuel to the fire.

Sometimes appears as adding fuel to the flames.

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anger · riling · escalation · making things worse · incitement · heated argument · frustration · provocation · spark · taunting · antagonism · stirring · wildfire · confrontation · goading · inflammatory · ignition · hot temper

Opposites
escalation vs. de-escalation

adding fuel to firecalming down

Becoming less agitated

de-escalating · lowering the temperature · backing off · stepping back · tamping down

provocation vs. pacification

adding fuel to firemaking peace

Ending hostilities between parties

pouring oil on troubled waters · soothing · building bridges · mending fences · burying the hatchet

worsening vs. remedying

adding fuel to firemending fences

Repairing damaged relationships

letting sleeping dogs lie

Family

adding, addition, additional, additionally, fuel, fueled, fueling, refuel, refueling

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Known to kids · Used worldwide · Timeless · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G