abrasively

In grating manner

Abrasively describes doing something in a harsh, grating manner that rubs people the wrong way.

Someone who speaks abrasively is blunt to the point of causing friction: He abrasively dismissed every suggestion.

The word draws on the physical sense of abrasion—wearing away through rough contact—applied to social interaction.

harsh

caustic

Chemically burning; bitterly mocking

vitriolic · acerbic · cutting · stinging · sharply · bluntly · curtly · tersely · gruffly · brusquely

textural

roughly

In approximate terms

harshly · raspingly · sandpapery · grittily · jaggedly · unevenly

irritating

annoyingly

In a vexing manner

harshly · irritatingly · vexingly · maddeningly · exasperatingly · obnoxiously · unpleasantly · disagreeably · off-puttingly · disturbingly

aggressive

forcefully

With strong intensity

belligerently · antagonistically · hostilely · pugnaciously · contentiously · bullishly · overbearingly · intimidatingly · domineeringly · assertively

Categories
Opposites
interpersonal manner

abrasivelygently

In a mild manner

smoothly · kindly · warmly · softly · tactfully

physical texture/contact

abrasivelysmoothly

Without friction or difficulty

gently · softly · delicately · lightly · silkily

Phrases
Family

abrasive, abrasiveness, abrasives

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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Negative · Everyday, not technical · Rated G