went along to get along

Chose easy compliance

Went along to get along describes accepting or conforming to avoid conflict, even when you disagree.

The phrase captures the trade-off between authenticity and social harmony—keeping quiet to maintain relationships or standing: He never challenged the boss; he just went along to get along.

Often carries a faintly critical tone, suggesting compromise of principles for convenience.

Related

compliance · falling in line · yes man · groupthink · collaboration · yielding · appeasement · conformity · spinelessness · consensus-building · risk aversion · de-escalation · placation · submission · path of least resistance · conflict avoidance · diplomacy · peacemaking

Opposites
social assertiveness

went along to get alongrocked the boat

Created unwanted disruption

made waves · stood one's ground · pushed back · dissented · resisted

conflict orientation

went along to get alongstirred the pot

Intentionally provoked discord

called out · stood one's ground · dug in one's heels · escalated · threw down the gauntlet

Family

along, longer, longest, length, lengthen, lengthy, elongate, elongation, getting

Familiarity
Top 500,000
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Used worldwide · Timeless · Abstract · Everyday, not technical · Rated G